While parents grumble about how much time their children spend on the computer, and the shallow things in which they are interested in, the current generation is slipping further and further into a technological hole; filled with underdressed preteens and candidly twittered thoughts. Immodesty has taken over. There is joy in posting pictures of oneself, commenting on the scene, one’s outfits, and other virtually meaningless aspects of one’s life. However, there is no going back now. The downward spiral has begun, and although parents would like to revert back to the old face-to-face conversation, that art is becoming increasingly antiquated. Mr. Sheetz, the SOL coordinator, commented on this phenomenon: “It [social networking] has taken away the ability to communicate and hold conversation in person. It is much more difficult for kids to communicate now, without technology.”

Lack of humility is displayed through posts and pictures. Statuses are constantly posted concerning oneself – whether it is a game or award won, or mundane daily activity. The point is, teens assume others are interested in their daily lives. It is a sort of self-centeredness; the expectation that others care. The self revolving culture is the whole reason Twitter has been successful. Users can post minute-by-minute updates in hopes that others will see, comment, or twitter back. Pictures are the same way, users post them with the assumption that others want to see. When kids post revealing or scandalous pictures, the reaction among students is that of confusion. Many wonder what would cause them to do such a thing, and purposely scar their reputation. Garrett commented, “It makes me think less of them.”

Contrary to the chic look of old Hollywood, the film and television industry of today depicts actors in little clothing. Junior Mary Sydney Garrett commented on the influence of the industry. She said, “It has a big influence on teenagers because we’re easily impressionable. We all watch TV and movies where celebrities are immodestly dressed and candid about their private lives.” Gone are the days of sheath and collared dresses; today’s fashion revolves around low-cut, short, and immodest clothing. This is not seen as proper school attire, but students are always testing limits. Vice Principal Mr. Byers said, “I believe it [the dress code] is fair to the kids, it’s appropriate and follows Loudoun County policy.” Byers’ everyday outfit hasn’t varied much; he went to a private school and, pulling on his tie, said “I’ve been wearing a uniform all my life.” The lack of uniform in Briar Woods High School helps students express their personal style, but many outfits are borderline acceptable. It is the job of the administration, specifically Dr. Brock, the Vice Principal, to help enforce the dress code. So far this year she says she has not had much trouble.

Teens today are unable to keep their bodies, thoughts and pictures to themselves. The candid society is willing to reveal anything, and teens assume that their peers want to listen or see. It is not purposely immodest; it is a side effect of the growing influence of the industry and social networking. Byers said “Always err on the side of caution.” If students take this advice, they can avoid being underdressed, and overexposed on the internet.